Buying your first sex toy can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience.
These days there are so many options available, therefore it’s important to make an informed choice to ensure safety, comfort, and pleasure.
Whether you’re exploring solo pleasure or enhancing intimacy with a partner, here are some key factors to consider when buying your first sex toy.
Identify your needs and desires
Before purchasing a sex toy, consider what kind of stimulation you’re looking for.
Are you interested in exploring new sensations, enhancing intimacy with a partner, or self-satisfaction?
Understanding your goals will help narrow down the type of toy that’s right for you.
Consider what kind of stimulation you enjoy.
Do you prefer internal or external stimulation?
Are you curious about vibration, suction, or penetration?
Choose the right type of toy
Sex toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and functions. Here are some popular categories to consider.
Vibrators: Ideal for clitoral, vaginal, or external stimulation. They come in many forms, including bullet vibrators, wand massagers, and G-spot vibrators.
Dildos: Non-vibrating toys designed for penetration. They can be used for vaginal or anal play.
Couples’ toys: Designed to be used during partnered sex, such as vibrating rings or wearable vibrators.
Suction toys: These toys use air pressure to create suction, offering clitoral stimulation.
Kink and BDSM accessories: If you’re exploring power dynamics or sensory play, consider items like blindfolds, restraints, or paddles.
Choose the right material
Sex toys come in a variety of materials, and some are safer than others. Look for body-safe materials.
Silicone: Soft, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. It’s a popular choice for its durability and body-safe properties.
ABS plastic: Non-porous, rigid, and often used for vibrators and dildos.
Stainless steel or glass: Ideal for temperature play and easy to clean, but ensure they’re from reputable brands.
Consider shape and size
If you’re new to sex toys, start with something small and unintimidating.
A beginner-friendly vibrator or dildo will help you ease into the experience.
If you want penetrative toys, consider options with ergonomic shapes that match your body’s natural curves.
Power and settings
For vibrators and other powered toys, consider the type of power source (battery-operated vs. rechargeable) and the range of settings.
Rechargeable toys are often more eco-friendly and cost-effective in the long run, while battery-operated options can be convenient for travel.
Look for toys with multiple vibration patterns and intensity levels, especially if you’re new to sex toys.
This allows you to experiment and discover what feels best.
Look for beginner-friendly features
Some features make certain sex toys more beginner-friendly, such as:
- Soft and flexible materials for comfort.
- Simple controls for ease of use.
- Quieter motors for discretion.
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