If you want the sight of your home to lift your spirits, read Part 2 of design psychology coach and interior designer Rebecca West’s tips on how to make your house a happy place to view.
Q: How do you know where to start if your home doesn’t make you happy when you step through the door?
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When I have clients who feel that way, I like to ask: “If I could wave a magic wand and change just one thing for you right now, what would give you the biggest sense of relief?” I find that helps people zero in on something that would really give some momentum and impact. If that doesn’t help, then start with something random. Go to your sock drawer or your linen cupboard and get rid of one or two things that you no longer like or need. Or just change a burned-out light bulb or sweep the stoep. Tiny things build momentum.
Q: I have a small space with lots of family photos that go way back and I buy from artists who I like and can afford. I can’t put everything up at once, so I’m wondering how to plan a space in which I can rotate the things I have collected? (I’m not looking to declutter.)
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My favourite way to have an easy-to-rotate space is to install picture ledges for gallery spaces. You can swop things and never have to put extra holes in the wall. If you have some larger pieces, maybe hang those directly on the wall as part of the larger gallery. If you prefer a more organic gallery, go that route. I am not afraid to put holes in my wall; that’s what a home is for.
Q: Do you have any advice for couples who have design differences? One is very traditional, and the other is modern.
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It’s not uncommon for couples to have different design aesthetics and marrying modern and traditional can be a special challenge. I always recommend starting by getting on the same visual page. Try going on Pinterest individually and each choosing 10 examples of the room you have in mind to change, such as 10 bedrooms or 10 living rooms. Once you each have 10 rooms that you would be happy to come home to, compare ideas. Tell each other what you like about the rooms and how they make you feel. Look for things you have in common. Maybe one person feels more strongly about the colour palette, the other about the style of the furnishings. No matter what, make it a visual conversation; words get in the way, for sure.